So, I’m going to try and keep this post short today. The fact of the matter is, someone should’ve snuffed Vado, son. I mean, how is it possible that in a room full of people, excuse me, a room full of men, that NO ONE hemmed him up for putting hands on Tahiry Jose? All I know is, the entire situation was a clusterfuck of nonsense, man. On the real, I don’t want to hear ANY justification for Vado’s behavior.
Ok, for those who are unaware, Tahiry and Vado are a “couple” on WE tv‘s Marriage Boot Camp: Hip Hop Edition. Now, I won’t lie, fam. Real talk, I put the word “couple” in quotations because their union seems fraudulent to me. Ok, yes, I’m well-aware of the fact that Tahiry is allowed to move on from Joe Budden. However, it just feels like her relationship with Vado came out of left field. Especially since they’re now on a show like Marriage Boot Camp. In any case, the oddity of their bond is not why we’re here today. In reality, domestic violence is the real reason for this post, bruh.
Now, in a clip posted by Dr. Ish Major from an upcoming episode, we see Vado forcibly grab Tahiry in front of all of their castmates. Moving on, there were a couple of things that alarmed me about this incident: first, the fact that Vado was willing to take that type of action on television and in front of other people. Shit, I can only imagine the kind of bullshit he’s pulling at home, son. Second, the fact that Tahiry didn’t even seem surprised by his outburst. Once again, this lends credence to the idea that this wasn’t his first time doing that to her. Third, the fact that no dude in the room moved a muscle to help Tahiry, but have no problem squabbling with each other. Hell, I don’t even watch the show but heard about a previous altercation between DeVon Waller and Willie Taylor from Day26. So, these cats can fight over stupidity, but not to help a woman in need?
Look, before I continue, let me make something perfectly clear, son. Now, I’ve already seen comments from some people who are deep in their victim-blaming bag. Yeah, I’ve seen a lot of “Tahiry has an attitude” or “Tahiry has been aggressive towards him, too” type of responses. Fam, check this out. Like I said in my post about Megan Thee Stallion and Tory Lanez, unless this man’s life is in IMMEDIATE danger, there is NO justification for violence. Oh, he doesn’t like the way she talks to him? Well, then fucking leave, man. That is absolutely an option, people. Grabbing or hitting a woman is NEVER an appropriate response during a disagreement. Period.
In the end, I don’t know how some of these dudes operate, bruh. Keeping it a buck, nothing of that nature could happen in my presence, son. Now, if anyone thinks that I’m blowing hot air, ask some of the women in my life how I get down in their honor. Ultimately, everyone on that cast is a fucking sucker, man. By and by, Vado is the biggest sucker of them all. It is what it is. LC out.